It is great to find people who agree with us, and it is also important to be able to have conversations with people who have different viewpoints than ours. The point is not necessarily to convince people to adopt our point of view, but rather to listen to each other to potentially understand a little better why we think the way we think. It is possible to understand why someone feels the way they feel without agreeing with it. It is important to be able to disagree without being disagreeable.