When you are asking for help from the Divine, don’t tie their hands. Ask them for the best help they can give you, not for the best help that you can imagine at the time. If you ask for a particular outcome, you may get it, and you may miss out on an even better outcome that you can’t yet imagine. Know that the answer to your prayers might be “not that, but this” or “not yet.” Sometimes it pays to not be too specific.