Please remember, it is my story to tell when, where, and to whom I please. If I want the news to be a secret for a while, that is up to me. If I want to tell a few people now, and more later, that is also up to me. If I want to blast it on social media, or tell all or some in person, that is my decision. I get to decide. You can agree or disagree, but it is my choice. I may share my reasoning with you, or I may not. It is my decision.